L.E.A.P. Workshop -“Ritual Revelations" by DapperDominus86 & EyesOfTheMoon (BDSM/Kink Class)
A deep dive looking at how to develop rituals inside of a dynamic, what they can do and how to increase their impact. @DapperDominus86 & @EyesOfTheMoon will start with basic concepts of rituals. They will explore different headspaces and the energy that is meant to connect us.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Livestream Tickets HERE
Discussions on Personal Rituals and Partnered Rituals to see how shared experiences can empower the individual and the dynamic.
Tips and tricks throughout to enhance your practices.
This class with be a mix of instruction, discussion and demonstration. Class is suitable for all experience levels and designed to give a solid overview and help attendees expand their knowledge base.
Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Performance & Play - Burlesque Night
The Burlesque Night has become one of our favorite performance events at Oblige. Fans and feather boas. Pasties and tassels. The seductive theatrical displays. The music. And of course, our performer's dedication to this art.
An hour-long show will set the stage for a kinky as fuck evening as only Oblige does.
Doors and Social Hour at 8:00
Performances @9:00
Play party until 1:00am
L.E.A.P. Workshop- "Wrestling with Rope" (In-person Only class)
How many times has someone said they don't have the patience to get tied up? Well, who ever said bondage is supposed to be slow?
In this class, we'll combine body manipulation techniques with basic rope skills to create fast-paced, aggressive bondage. The techniques will focus on forcefully restraining a less-than-cooperative bottom, along with risk mitigation techniques for bottoms to help minimize injuries. Class by @_MrNobody & @ser0tonin_ (More about them below)
This is an -In-person Only Class
These concepts can be good for dynamic scenes or switch-fights, and have the potential to be adapted to alter power imbalances. This is not an advanced wrestling or martial arts class, but if you have pre-existing skills along these lines, you may well be able to incorporate them here.
This class assumes a somewhat higher than average risk profile (primarily through incorporating rough body play and improvised ties) and will include a presentation to highlight key safety variables distinct from the rope scenes many of us are used to. Please be aware of your own unique body and come prepared with any special supplies you may need to ensure that you can safely engage in rough body play (braces, wraps, etc.). All participants are expected to have an understanding of rope safety and to be willing/able to maintain body awareness and communication in challenging ties. You may wish to bring anywhere between 2-6 lengths of roughly 8m rope.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Wicked Weekend’s: Rocky Horror Picture Show- “Don’t Dream it; Be it”
Like the movie, this is an evening about liberating yourself and showing your originality. Made for those people who wanted to give themselves over to absolute pleasure.
Embrace the movie or be as “extra” as you want in your own way. Either way pays tribute to the film and this theme.
Tickets HERE
Attire is going to be a thing this night for sure so, consider it please.
Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.
Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.
Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.
L.E.A.P. Workshop -"Holy Cow! - Intro to Hucow & Bovine Roleplay" With Lady V
Discover ways to create a unique headspace, explore multiple roles, implement many forms of play, & learn about multiple milking methods to fill you with udder pleasure!
Cowboys/girls & cows have become all the rage in fashion & even in the bedroom. This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
The Big O Discussion Munch: Doing Kink vs. Being Kinky
A discussion on Behavior, Orientation, and Identity as they relate to Kink/BDSM. Where and how they overlap for us
At one point or another we all struggle with internal questions around Doing, Wanting, and/or Being
Others questions involved in this topic:
Does Doing become Being
Do D/s components dictate our relationship choices
Does kink/BDSM serve an intimacy function beyond sex
Join us as we take a deep look at our own evolutions of kink(y)
L.E.A.P. Workshop- “Bottoms Up" -Bottom Led Rope and Suspension with Nick and Teresa
@UsagiMami and @ChiefDaddyJokes are back with a new classs for Oblige.
Join them for a class dedicated to the fun of Bottom Led Shibari, where the focus is on enhancing communication and fostering a profound connection between partners.
This class is designed for both beginners and experienced practitioners who want to explore the dynamics of power exchange, trust, and creativity in their rope play.
This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)
The fundamentals of these ties will be covered in the 6:15-7:00 portion of the event.
This class will require 3-8 hanks of 8-10m rope. No partner required for a couple of the ties.
-This class is designed as a partnered class, though some can be self tied and there is always value to being in the room. Often people attend without tying partners and there’s an opportunities for them to pair up. You are welcome to get ahead of things by posting in our group, and try to make some new friends to tie with.
All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Invite Only Play Party
Attendance is by invite or approved request only.
Ticket Link: With approved request
Littles Camp-Halloween Edition: At Oblige with Miss. Leia
Welcome to Littles Camp - Halloween Edition!
Littles camp is a place for littles to engage in their head spaces and play with others who are doing the same in a safe and non sexualized space! There will be multiple volunteer bigs to help you with your little needs and to assist at each little play station. The bigs are there to help you and encourage you to play with others. If you’re shy or newer to the space, we’ll happily help you meet news friends and find a place to play. Your Teacher for the day will be Miss. Leia (@-LeiaSkywalker-)
Website details Here
Tickets Here
L.E.A.P. Workshop - TBD
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Performance & Play - Masquerade Night with a shibari performance by TwistedRaver & VitaniBrookes
Please join us for another alluring, one of a kind evening, as we do here at Oblige.
This a Masquerade BDSM play party with a mysterious flare, kicked off by a shibari performance from @TwistedRaver & @VitaniBrookes.
Doors and Social Hour at 7:00
Performances @ 8:00
Play party until 1:00am
Bonus Thursday - “Mid-week” Pizza & Play Party
Looks like there is an extra Thursday this month. When that happens we have a BDSM play party to celebrate the 5th Thursday of the month. No class this week. No formal performances. Instead, we’re bringing in some pizza, dragging all the furniture out, and having a good old-fashioned play party. Play as you wish within the rules
Come as you are or dress as kinky as you like. Doors @7:00 Kink until Midnight if you like.
Doors 7:00pm
Stay & Play until 12:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Kink Exploratorium: A sampling experience for tops and bottoms alike
Two, three hour sessions are available starting at 11:00AM and 3:00PM. Up to 10 stations will be running congruent to each other offering our guests the chance to try several different things. Most “mini scenes” will last 12-15 minutes including some education about the kink and small negotiations.
For “tops” this is an excellent chance to begin to exploring a new skill sets and for “bottoms” it’s a really good way to “get a feel for it”. Or switch it up and check out the other side.
Some of the sample kinks on hand will be:
Floggers & Paddles
Canes
Whips
Rope Bondage/ Shibari
Fire Cupping
Needle Play
Knife Play
Electric Play
Self tying
…and possibly more
L.E.A.P. Workshop -"Straitjackets 101" (BDSM/Kink Class)
We will be in The Dungeon this week continuing our exploration of all things kink/BDSM with @AthenaDenial.
In this class they will explore the evolution of these iconic restraints from their dark history in asylums to their modern day applications in bondage and medical fetish. Through a hands on approach you’ll learn how to incorporate straightjackets into your scenes safely and seductively and are bound to have a good time!
In-Person Tickets HERE
Livestream Tickets HERE
Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop - TBD
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop - TBD
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Beginners Intensive - Intro to Shibari Weekend Day 1
A full weekend focused on those looking to begin and solidify their Shibari journey.
We are dedicating an entire 8 class intensive weekend to how, we at Oblige, got started on our rope journey. Classes are intended for not only on those applying rope, but equally important, those that receive rope.
This “Intro to Shibari” intensive weekend will offer these 8 classes plus a Saturday night Shibari Performance with Serene_X & GoldenCourtney, followed by a BDSM Play Party.
Weekend Intensive Limited to 20 tying pairs to allow for adequate attention to be given to all attendees.
Pricing is per person. $150 each. To sign up as a tying pair you will need to enter each person’s information separately. This is so we have proper rule acknowledgments and waivers for each person. This intensive is designed for tying pairs.
Beginners Intensive - Intro to Shibari Weekend Day 2
A full weekend focused on those looking to begin and solidify their Shibari journey.
We are dedicating an entire 8 class intensive weekend to how, we at Oblige, got started on our rope journey. Classes are intended for not only on those applying rope, but equally important, those that receive rope.
This “Intro to Shibari” intensive weekend will offer these 8 classes plus a Saturday night Shibari Performance with Serene_X & GoldenCourtney, followed by a BDSM Play Party.
Weekend Intensive Limited to 20 tying pairs to allow for adequate attention to be given to all attendees.
Pricing is per person. $150 each. To sign up as a tying pair you will need to enter each person’s information separately. This is so we have proper rule acknowledgments and waivers for each person. This intensive is designed for tying pairs.
Beginners Intensive - Intro to Shibari Weekend Day 3
A full weekend focused on those looking to begin and solidify their Shibari journey.
We are dedicating an entire 8 class intensive weekend to how, we at Oblige, got started on our rope journey. Classes are intended for not only on those applying rope, but equally important, those that receive rope.
This “Intro to Shibari” intensive weekend will offer these 8 classes plus a Saturday night Shibari Performance with Serene_X & GoldenCourtney, followed by a BDSM Play Party.
Weekend Intensive Limited to 20 tying pairs to allow for adequate attention to be given to all attendees.
Pricing is per person. $150 each. To sign up as a tying pair you will need to enter each person’s information separately. This is so we have proper rule acknowledgments and waivers for each person. This intensive is designed for tying pairs.
Rope Jam & Figure Drawing Sunday at Oblige (Live Figure Drawing in Rope 12:30-2:30)
Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
Tickets HERE
With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.
This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Cost:
Free for Members
$10 for a Member’s Guest
$20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)
No ticket sales at the door
Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.
Wicked Weekend - "80's Rock Style" A BDSM Edge Play Party
That's right kinksters! We're bringing it back. Our end of summer 80's Rock Party.
Wear your leather and kink gear if you like but this night is made for the hair band lovers and Don Johnson fans.
This is the one Saturday a month we open the space for all you sadists and brats to run wild. (Seriously though Brast, NO RUNNING)
Tickets: HERE
As with all of our events attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable. Though themed attire is preferred, it is never required.
Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.
L.E.A.P. Workshop- “Rope Play for the Dungeon” with Serene_X& GoldenCourtney
We hear time and time again, “my person want’s me to do rope, but it takes too long; I don’t have the patients; it’s not my kink.”
We are here to show you, you don’t need all the fancy patterns to tie your person up in the dungeon, so you can both have your things. This is also a great class for the rope tops amongst us that want to mix a new idea or three into their rope play.
LiveStream/Recording Tickets HERE
@Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney will be utilizing BDSM play furniture in a variety of ways to demonstrate some easy to learn and remember ties you can carry with you into your home or dungeon scenes.
Bring your toy bags, after class you will have all of our 30+ pieces of BDSM play furniture available to you to “practice” on.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
The Big O Discussion Munch: Inclusivity in Kink/BDSM/Fetish, spaces & events
Our discussion on how event organizers and attendees can create truly inclusive spaces/events.
In a society that has become increasingly polarized there is concerned that some Kink/BDSM/Fetish, spaces/events, are not as inclusive as they think they are or as they could be. Some feel that their attendees do not reflect the wide variety of people in our communities. Spaces/events may see their attendees do not to reflect a variety of ages, cultures, races, gender identities, sexual identities or even personal abilities.
How do we rectify this? What does inclusion look like for you? How can Kink/BDSM/Fetish, spaces/events, be welcoming to YOU.
Tickets HERE
Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party (by approved request or invite only)
Attendance is by invite or approved request only.
Announcing: Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party
Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.
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An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was full intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to server, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.
This strongly vetted party will be in the same regard as or members/ invite only/ private party night. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.
Protocol is simple:
-ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.
**Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link.
Attendance is by invite or approved request only.
Ticket Link: With approved request
L.E.A.P. Workshop -"Cold Branding" by MestreDaDor and PersuasivePeach (BDSM/Kink Class)
Brands can be symbolic, they can mark your property, show who's property you are, or they can be just for fun. This class will focus on cold branding, this is a less extreme form of branding that is becoming more and more popular. @MestreDaDor and @PersuasivePeach will talk about the tools and techniques you'll need to leave your mark on someone.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Livestream Tickets HERE
@MestreDaDor has had a lifelong passion for painting pictures with pain. About ten years ago he started exploring the public scene in Ohio and Michigan attending events, classes, and parties - he hasn't slowed down since. These days one of his primary interests is coming up with new ways of leaving lasting artwork on those adventurous souls looking to decorate their bodies.
There will be a chance to try a brand after the class if you'd like see what it's like for yourself.
Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop -Intro to Pressure points: "Kinky points to play with" (BDSM/Kink Class)
From time to time we come across topics and presenters that we simply adore and we just love to make a day of it.
Come learn basic pressure points in this intensive class with @Enby_Rabbit. They will be starting with the safety aspects of pressure points, how they work, and how to reduce the risk of harm. After which the class will be transitioning into learning some basic ones.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Partners for the class are highly encouraged but not required. We'll also be covering how to find them on yourself and exercises on how to use them.
We will be going over at least 7 sets of pressure points to include in your kink. All doing different things.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop- “Spicy Rope” -Sadistic Shibari: by Midnight_Shibari Shibari & I_am_Her
We have deeply missed the joy that comes with @Midnight_Shibari sadistic rope classes at Oblige. Well, he’s back and you are in for a treat.
Ready for the spicy rope that will have your partner making all the lovely sounds? In this class, @Midnight_Shibari & @I_am_Her will be exploring spicy and sadistic rope. The rope that adds another element to the craft!
This is an In-person only class
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
LEAP Bonus BDSM Thursday -mid week pizza & play party
Looks like there’s an extra Thursday in August, so why not celebrate with a bit of kinky fun?
No class this week. No formal performances. Instead, we’re bringing in some pizza, dragging all the furniture out, and having a good old-fashioned play party. Play as you wish within the rules until midnight, this week.
Come as you are or dress as kinky as you like.
Party 7-11pm
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Special Event Workshop- Two Dynamic Suspension Classes with Air (Shibari Classes)
Here is a wild idea that seemingly came out of nowhere. A full day of dynamic suspension workshops with @Air !!! It turns out they are in town visiting us so we decided to make a day of it at Oblige.
Two workshop classes Saturday August 24th:
Morning class- “Human Hardpoint” 10:00-1:00
Afternoon class- “Suspension Without a Plan” 2:00-5:00
Event Details below and on the Website: HERE
These are both BIG classes. Each presented in an “intensive style” format. While there is A LOT to learn as a solo class auditor these classes are designed for self-tiers and tying pairs, Tri’s and Quad’s.
Tickets are per person and per class. (Each person will need a ticket for each class)
Morning- Human Hardpoint Tickets: HERE
Afternoon- Suspension Without a Plan Tickets: HERE
Save some clicks and get a Full Day Ticket: HERE
Who is @Air?
They have been a friend to friends of Oblige for years and we are extremely excited to be sharing space with them again. Air is a queer non-binary neurospicy poly switchy shaninstigator of magnitude. They have been involved in the Rope/BDSM community for just shy of a decade. As an avid self-tier, rigger, and rope bottom, they've showcased their creative, precocious, and hilariously sadomasochistic style at both national and international level events. Committed to fostering inclusivity and non-judgment, Air passionately guides individuals on their magical kink journey with skill and contagious enthusiasm.
Performance & Play - Back to School a Shibari Performance
It’s that time of year. This time "The Back to School Party" @Oblige is a hot AF performance night
Join us for a fast paced, high flying, shibari performance with all the high school innocents you’d expect from Oblige. 🤣
After the performance feel free to use the space as it was intended. Enjoy “The Rope Room” as it was intended or explore “The Dungeon” and find all of its hidden features.
Doors and Social Hour at 8:00
Performances @9:00
Play party until 1:00am
L.E.A.P. Workshop- “Bedroom bondage 101 & more”
Beginner to Advanced - We got something fun to teach you. Classics and some of that stuff you should never do but you freaking love to anyway.
This week it’s all about the nasty, delightful, sexy time we can have with rope. @Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney will be pulling out all the bedroom ties, tips and tricks for waterworks and good old fashion down and dirty rope play.
This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)
The fundamentals of these ties will be covered in the 6:15-7:00 portion of the event.
This class will require 3-8 hanks of 8-10m rope. No partner required for a couple of the ties.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
The Big O Discussion Munch: Kink/BDSM Relationship Burnout - “It’s A LOT”
In the month's discussion munch, we will explore:
If you are active in the kink/BDSM scene or even heavily engaged in a committed D/s or poly relationship, burn out can be a serious factor and zap us of our joy. Life happens and we shift focus, bringing a sense of “I’m not enough”. Frenzy can set in at any point. New relations energy (NRE) can consume us.
No one teaches us tools/skills to manage kink burnout. It’s not a mainstream topic and if we want resources we have to seek them out. But with so many “rabbit holes to fall down”, the search can be overwhelming in it’s self.
This event focuses on community knowledge/experience sharing. Peer to peer learning and support. If you desire a greater understanding, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.
Peer to peer learning, sharing, and support. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.
Tickets HERE
Invite Only Play Party - Kinky Game Night
Attendance is by invite or approved request only.
With the expansion of “The Dungeon” at Oblige finally complete, this is our chance to figure out just how much fun we can have throughout the ENTIRE space.
Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page for approved attendees and members.
Were is feeling frisky I guess. So wanted a kinky game night with all the Oblige friends.
Creative Rope Exhibition 🎭🪢 (everyone has 20 minutes to tie something wild)
"Name that Cane" 🦯🤨🔁 (Tops get to "identify" their own canes)
Pin the tail on the donkey 🪡 🫏 (If our butt plugs were too small last time...)
Sybian/Tremor Karaoke 🎤😝 (thank you @ChiefDaddyJokes)
Kinky Twister (relaxed rules this time)🥵🤪
Squirting competition 💦⚖️ (It's really happening this time)
Ticket Link: With approved request
L.E.A.P. Workshop - "Cigars: Play and Protocol"
In this cigar class participants will learn the art of incorporating cigars into their BDSM play. Learn to enhance the visual and sensory experience in methods such as using the cigar as a prop and exploring the sensation of ash on the skin. @UsagiMami with @ChiefDaddyJokes, will cover a variety of techniques for incorporating cigars into erotic play.
Participants will also learn about safety precautions when using cigars in a kinky setting, including proper handling and care of cigars, as well as how to safely incorporate them into their scenes. Whether you are a seasoned cigar aficionado or new to the world of BDSM, this class offers a unique and exciting way to explore kink and sensation play.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Rope Jam & Figure Drawing Sunday
Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
Tickets HERE
With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.
This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Cost:
Free for Members
$10 for a Member’s Guest
$20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)
No ticket sales at the door
Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.
Wicked Weekend’s - The ABC Party (Anything But Clothes)
We are finally doing it. Too many folx have asked and the time is finally here for an Anything But Clothes Party (A.B.C)
Theme is simple- Wear “anything but clothes” when in the play spaces.
Tickets: HERE
As with all of our events attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable. Though themed attire is preferred, it is never required.
Please enter the building “street legal”. Have your bits sensitive areas somewhat covered when entering and exiting the building.
Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.
L.E.A.P. Workshop -Wax Play for the Dungeon or Bed Room (BDSM/Kink Class)
Does getting a bit messy turn you on? Wax is a great way to play! Much more than dripping wax on someone. It can be sensual, a sadist and masochist dream or even an artistic endeavor...your imagination is the only limit.
Come learn about wax play with @Tapedover and @leilia
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop- Summer Suspension Series 3 of 3: “Rescue and Recover”
Continuing our "Suspension Series," we dive into part 3 with @Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney.
Things that can, have, and will go wrong in rope suspensions. It’s not all about the rope, special bottoms perspective focus/considerations for being in rope when it becomes “too much”. Along with some most common suspension rope mistakes.
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Mild to Wild - Invite Only Play Party
Attendance is by invite or approved request only. This event post is for those of us that use this platform to manage our social calendars
Announcing: Mild to Wild- Invite Only Play Party
With the expansion of “The Dungeon” at Oblige finally complete, this is our chance to really explore space get weird without a huge crowd and amongst trusted kinksters.
Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page.
All our little kinks and wonderful taboos.
What gets us going and drives us wild.
If there’s a word for it, someone other than you does it, and FUCKING loves it.
Come share yours and help others find and feel joy in theirs.
Friends, join us.
Ticket Link: With approved request
L.E.A.P. Workshop -“Dungeon Monitor (DM) Awareness
L.E.A.P. Workshop -“Dungeon Monitor (DM) Awareness Class with SereneX & _MrNobody (BDSM/Kink Class)
With "The Dungeon" now in proper use now and "The Rope Room" more accessible,
we wanted to set aside a day dedicated to promoting safety and awareness related to not only Oblige but to BDSM/Kink spaces in general.
THIS IS AN IN-PERSON CLASS ONLY
@SereneX and @_MrNobody will be here to discuss
-General concerns related to “higher risk” play at spaces
-How to identify safety equipment locations
-What to do if you see something “off”
-and to give suggestion on how we all can help ourselves enjoy the space more responsibly
This class will function, in part, as official “Dungeon Monitor Training” for those interested in serving in that role.
All attends can use coupon code ‘ THEDUNGEON ‘ for 50% THIS class.
Should you need assistance beyond that please contact by email obligerope@gmail.com and ask about our available scholarships.
This class is an introductory look at what to be aware of at BDSM/Kink parties. Good information for us all to have.
Class will be lecture style with Q&A and hand outs (yay!!!)
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Performance & Play - A Night of Strolling Performances @Oblige
Our monthly Performance & Play evenings tend to be filled with theatrics, flare and amazing talent. This evening is expected to be nothing short of that. A lot of that in fact.
With the addition of “The Dungeon at Oblige” in full play, guests are invite to stroll and watch and/or get involved and play, as they see fit throughout all 7,000 square feet of venue.
This is an evening for voyeurs and exhibitionist a like. Roam. Watch. Play as you wish.
Come on out to enjoy the shows or become a part of it yourself.
A different “act” will start every 20-30 minutes throughout the space. Some overt. Some subtle. All matters of kink/BDSM performances will be on display.
Some Featured Performances:
Impact Players
Shibari Performers
Pole Dancers
Burlesque
Fire players
and More Kinky Shit.
Attendees are encouraged to play as they feel comfortable at any point in the evening, leaving others to wonder, what is part of the show and what’s not.
Doors and Social Hour at 8:00
Performances @9:00
Play party until 1:00am
L.E.A.P. Workshop- “Summer Suspension Series 2 of 3: Intro to Suspension Part 2”
Continuing our "Suspension Series," we dive into part 2 with @Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney . Expect to see lock off to bamboo and rings, a couple of new harnesses, and a "simple' to achieve statics suspension. We will be discussing uplink management and safe ways to come down.
LiveStream/Recording Tickets HERE
This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)
Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
The Big O Discussion Munch: Taboos and Kink
In the month's discussion munch, we will explore taboos and kink.
Taboos can be a turn-on for lot of us, especially those who are more sensation-seeking and desire/need stronger stimuli to get their brains really firing. Breaking a taboo can increase the excitement level, heighten the risk, and be extremely rewarding.
Sexual taboos are a longstanding source of societal controversy. These sexual practices, off-limits within certain cultures, are often viewed with judgment and practiced secretly.
Tickets HERE
Rope Jam & Figure Drawing Sunday at Oblige (Live Figure Drawing in Rope 12:30-2:30)
Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
Tickets HERE
With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.
This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
Cost:
Free for Members
$10 for a Member’s Guest
$20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)
No ticket sales at the door
Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.
Wicked Weekend’s - The "Wet" Party (Expansion Debut)
“To see others suffer does one good, to make others suffer, even more.”
Forth Annual Summer “Wet” Party
For the past three years, this party has been amongst our more mysterious and coveted parties. Attendees take this theme in any direction they want.
This year, The “Wet” Party marks the official hard opening of The Dungeon at Oblige.
Tickets: HERE
Introducing The Dungeon at Oblige
We blew out the walls and made room for another 3,300 square feet of dedicated dungeon space on the north side of the venue.
Features Include:
Additional conversation furniture
More BDSM play furniture
A second bathroom with a four person shower
Giant Party deck (with real stairs)
Dedicated “play pods”
And countless other asked for features
Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.
L.E.A.P. Workshop -"Water Sports" with Serene_X & GoldenCourtney (BDSM/Kink Class)
As we prepare for the official opening of “The Dungeon” at Oblige, we have another edge play class for you. For years Serene_X and GoldenCourtney have been exploring and using Watersports in their dynamic and BDSM play. Around the dungeon, around the house, and in the bedroom. They are here to share their experience, how to’s, and personal connection.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Livestream Tickets HERE
For them this type of play is part erotic, part humiliation, part service, and some times degeneration. As a stand alone fetish or as an enhancement to “everyday” BDSM play, this kink can be edgy as fuck or adorable fun.
Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
L.E.A.P. Workshop -“BDSM 101” with LaynexSiren & Serene_X(BDSM/Kink Class)
If you are new/newer/ to kink/BDSM or refreshing your take on it all, BDSM 101 is designed to help you develop a solid foundation to start exploring. We are here to show you that it’s not all about punishment and darkness but rather connection and exploration.
In-Person Tickets HERE
Livestream Tickets HERE
This class is an introductory look at the BDSM lifestyle, different ways to play, how to get in that headspace and enjoy the time connecting with your partner. @LaynexSiren
and @Serene_X will walk you through what they have learned in their individual experiences as well as what that have derived from years in the BDSM/Kink Lifestyle.
Social Hour: 6-7
Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00
Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Special Event- "Sensually Seductive Service": Two Class Intensive w/ Lady V
Join @Oblige & @The_Lady_V for two workshops focusing on the art of integrating protocols, rituals, & service into your life & dynamics! These are all tools to build intentional & undistracted connection.... plus service is sexy.
Tickets HERE!
"Full Day Ticket" includes
-Doors at Noon
-1-3pm Protocols & Rituals: Focusing Intentions in D/s
-3:30 PM - 5:30 PM What's on Your Mind? - The Difference between Reactive, Predictive & Proactive Service
$50 for both classes in the "full day" or $25 for one class A La Cart
Invite Only Party - High Protocol Night
Attendance is by invite or approved request only. This event post is for those of us that use this platform to manage our social calendars
Announcing: High Protocol Play- Invite Only Party
Put your training and skills on display. Your own personal dynamics and protocols are encouraged.
Call and response
Position training
Service related kinks
Use this evening to the extent you wish
This strongly vetted party for Members, Their Guests, and Guests of the House. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.
Attendees are not required to attend partnered.
We will hold space for “Service Bottom” as well as “Service Tops” for protocol hours.
House Protocols in effect from 8:00-10:00PM