Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.

Bring out the gas masks, rubber, leather, crazy heels or your best fetish wear!!!

Wicked Weekends is the night to bring out the wild, unconventional, edgy play. It’s an evening designed for the kinkiest amongst us to feel uninhibited and unencumbered by what others think kink should look like.

Direct Ticketing Link HERE

Event Webpage HERE

This is the one Saturday a month we open the space for all you sadists and brats to run wild. (Seriously though Brast, NO RUNNING)

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Dress to impress- This is the night to be “A Little Extra”. Themed attire is preferred or “however you are comfortable”  

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

As they have progressed on their rope journey, @Serene_X & @Golden Courtney have found, that basics and fundamental ties are where their most fulfilling scenes come from. Simply ties, that allow them to stay in their connection with each other, express their passion and not worry so much about the rope. Join them as they demonstrate for the class how they make simple rope, passionate, connective, and alluring.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

A discussion on:
Virtual, and/or in person communities and the kink scene can look entirely different from region to region and even city to city.

Munchs/Social/Educational Events/Intensives/Play parties/House parties/Samplings/Vetting/Protocol/Etiquette/Protocol/Rituals

It can be overwhelming to figure out how to break through, get in the door, feel welcomed and seen.

Let’s talk it all through, share our experiences and people old and new friends find their path.

Tickets HERE

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Doors will open this month at 7:30 to allow for attendees to set service and settle into the headspace.

Put your training and skills on display. Your own personal dynamics and protocols are encouraged.

• Call and response

• Position training

• Service related kinks

• Use this evening to the extent you wish

This strongly vetted party for Members, Their Guests, and Guests of the House. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.

Attendees are not required to be attend partnered.

Ticket Link: With approved request

We will be in The Dungeon this week continuing our exploration of all things kink/BDSM with @AthenaDenial.

In this class they will explore the evolution of these iconic restraints from their dark history in asylums to their modern day applications in bondage and medical fetish. Through a hands on approach you’ll learn how to incorporate straightjackets into your scenes safely and seductively and are bound to have a good time!

In-Person Tickets HERE

Livestream Tickets HERE

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Looks like there is an extra Thursday this month. When that happens we have a BDSM play party to celebrate the 5th Thursday of the month. No class this week. No formal performances. Instead, we’re bringing in some pizza, dragging all the furniture out, and having a good old-fashioned play party. Play as you wish within the rules

Come as you are or dress as kinky as you like. Doors @7:00 Kink until Midnight if you like.

Doors 7:00pm
Stay & Play until 12:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Please join us for another alluring, one of a kind evening, as we do here at Oblige.
This a Masquerade BDSM play party with a mysterious flare, kicked off by a shibari performance from @TwistedRaver & @VitaniBrookes.

Tickets HERE

Doors and Social Hour at 7:00

Performances @ 8:00

Play party until 1:00am

This is a hybrid workshop presented by @Serene_X & Asha Lerae, Consent Academy Co-director. (A virtual / in-person class) Class will be in-person at Oblige with @Serene_X and joining us virtually will be Asha Lerae

Whatever kinky play you're into, a practice of consent will lower your risk of harm and increase your chance of pleasure (or pain, if that's what you want). Most of us have learned that 'no means no' and 'yes means yes', but consent goes way beyond that, especially when you're playing with power dynamics and intense sensations. This workshop builds the foundations of consent in the kink context, while also addressing the complexities, so you can start to practice deeper consent in your play and in your daily life.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Welcome to Littles Camp - Halloween Edition!
Littles camp is a place for littles to engage in their head spaces and play with others who are doing the same in a safe and non sexualized space! There will be multiple volunteer bigs to help you with your little needs and to assist at each little play station. The bigs are there to help you and encourage you to play with others. If you’re shy or newer to the space, we’ll happily help you meet news friends and find a place to play. Your Teacher for the day will be Miss. Leia (@-LeiaSkywalker-)

Website details Here

Tickets Here

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Ticket Link: With approved request

@UsagiMami and @ChiefDaddyJokes are back with a new classs for Oblige.
Join them for a class dedicated to the fun of Bottom Led Shibari, where the focus is on enhancing communication and fostering a profound connection between partners.

In-Person Tickets HERE

This class is designed for both beginners and experienced practitioners who want to explore the dynamics of power exchange, trust, and creativity in their rope play.

This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)

The fundamentals of these ties will be covered in the 6:15-7:00 portion of the event.

This class will require 3-8 hanks of 8-10m rope. No partner required for a couple of the ties.

-This class is designed as a partnered class, though some can be self tied and there is always value to being in the room. Often people attend without tying partners and there’s an opportunities for them to pair up. You are welcome to get ahead of things by posting in our group, and try to make some new friends to tie with.

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

A discussion on Behavior, Orientation, and Identity as they relate to Kink/BDSM. Where and how they overlap for us
At one point or another we all struggle with internal questions around Doing, Wanting, and/or Being

Direct Ticket Page HERE

Website Event Page HERE

Others questions involved in this topic:

Does Doing become Being
Do D/s components dictate our relationship choices
Does kink/BDSM serve an intimacy function beyond sex

Join us as we take a deep look at our own evolutions of kink(y)

Discover ways to create a unique headspace, explore multiple roles, implement many forms of play, & learn about multiple milking methods to fill you with udder pleasure!

Cowboys/girls & cows have become all the rage in fashion & even in the bedroom. This class gives ideas on how to rocket into udder space.

In-Person Tickets HERE

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.

Like the movie, this is an evening about liberating yourself and showing your originality. Made for those people who wanted to give themselves over to absolute pleasure.

Embrace the movie or be as “extra” as you want in your own way. Either way pays tribute to the film and this theme.

Tickets HERE

Attire is going to be a thing this night for sure so, consider it please.

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

How many times has someone said they don't have the patience to get tied up? Well, who ever said bondage is supposed to be slow?

In this class, we'll combine body manipulation techniques with basic rope skills to create fast-paced, aggressive bondage. The techniques will focus on forcefully restraining a less-than-cooperative bottom, along with risk mitigation techniques for bottoms to help minimize injuries. Class by @_MrNobody & @ser0tonin_ (More about them below)

In-Person Tickets HERE

This is an -In-person Only Class

These concepts can be good for dynamic scenes or switch-fights, and have the potential to be adapted to alter power imbalances. This is not an advanced wrestling or martial arts class, but if you have pre-existing skills along these lines, you may well be able to incorporate them here.

This class assumes a somewhat higher than average risk profile (primarily through incorporating rough body play and improvised ties) and will include a presentation to highlight key safety variables distinct from the rope scenes many of us are used to. Please be aware of your own unique body and come prepared with any special supplies you may need to ensure that you can safely engage in rough body play (braces, wraps, etc.). All participants are expected to have an understanding of rope safety and to be willing/able to maintain body awareness and communication in challenging ties. You may wish to bring anywhere between 2-6 lengths of roughly 8m rope.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

A deep dive looking at how to develop rituals inside of a dynamic, what they can do and how to increase their impact. @DapperDominus86 & @EyesOfTheMoon will start with basic concepts of rituals. They will explore different headspaces and the energy that is meant to connect us.

In-Person Tickets HERE

Livestream Tickets HERE

Discussions on Personal Rituals and Partnered Rituals to see how shared experiences can empower the individual and the dynamic.

Tips and tricks throughout to enhance your practices.

This class with be a mix of instruction, discussion and demonstration. Class is suitable for all experience levels and designed to give a solid overview and help attendees expand their knowledge base.

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 6:00 PM.

That's right kinksters! We're bringing it back. Our end of summer 80's Rock Party.
Wear your leather and kink gear if you like but this night is made for the hair band lovers and Don Johnson fans.

This is the one Saturday a month we open the space for all you sadists and brats to run wild. (Seriously though Brast, NO RUNNING)  

Tickets: HERE

As with all of our events attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable. Though themed attire is preferred, it is never required.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

We hear time and time again, “my person want’s me to do rope, but it takes too long; I don’t have the patients; it’s not my kink.”

We are here to show you, you don’t need all the fancy patterns to tie your person up in the dungeon, so you can both have your things. This is also a great class for the rope tops amongst us that want to mix a new idea or three into their rope play.

In-Person Tickets HERE

LiveStream/Recording Tickets HERE

@Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney will be utilizing BDSM play furniture in a variety of ways to demonstrate some easy to learn and remember ties you can carry with you into your home or dungeon scenes.

Bring your toy bags, after class you will have all of our 30+ pieces of BDSM play furniture available to you to “practice” on.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Announcing: Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party

Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.
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An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was full intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to server, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.

This strongly vetted party will be in the same regard as or members/ invite only/ private party night. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.

Protocol is simple:
-ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.

**Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link.

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Ticket Link: With approved request

Brands can be symbolic, they can mark your property, show who's property you are, or they can be just for fun. This class will focus on cold branding, this is a less extreme form of branding that is becoming more and more popular. @MestreDaDor and @PersuasivePeach will talk about the tools and techniques you'll need to leave your mark on someone.

In-Person Tickets HERE

Livestream Tickets HERE

@MestreDaDor has had a lifelong passion for painting pictures with pain. About ten years ago he started exploring the public scene in Ohio and Michigan attending events, classes, and parties - he hasn't slowed down since. These days one of his primary interests is coming up with new ways of leaving lasting artwork on those adventurous souls looking to decorate their bodies.

There will be a chance to try a brand after the class if you'd like see what it's like for yourself.

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

From time to time we come across topics and presenters that we simply adore and we just love to make a day of it.

Come learn basic pressure points in this intensive class with @Enby_Rabbit. They will be starting with the safety aspects of pressure points, how they work, and how to reduce the risk of harm. After which the class will be transitioning into learning some basic ones. 

In-Person Tickets HERE

Partners for the class are highly encouraged but not required. We'll also be covering how to find them on yourself and exercises on how to use them.

We will be going over at least 7 sets of pressure points to include in your kink. All doing different things. 

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

We have deeply missed the joy that comes with @Midnight_Shibari sadistic rope classes at Oblige. Well, he’s back and you are in for a treat.

Ready for the spicy rope that will have your partner making all the lovely sounds? In this class, @Midnight_Shibari & @I_am_Her will be exploring spicy and sadistic rope. The rope that adds another element to the craft!

In-Person Tickets HERE

This is an In-person only class

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Here is a wild idea that seemingly came out of nowhere. A full day of dynamic suspension workshops with @Air !!! It turns out they are in town visiting us so we decided to make a day of it at Oblige.

Two workshop classes Saturday August 24th:

Morning class- “Human Hardpoint” 10:00-1:00
Afternoon class- “Suspension Without a Plan” 2:00-5:00

Event Details below and on the Website: HERE

These are both BIG classes. Each presented in an “intensive style” format. While there is A LOT to learn as a solo class auditor these classes are designed for self-tiers and tying pairs, Tri’s and Quad’s.

Tickets are per person and per class. (Each person will need a ticket for each class)

Morning- Human Hardpoint Tickets: HERE

Afternoon- Suspension Without a Plan Tickets: HERE

Save some clicks and get a Full Day Ticket: HERE

Who is @Air?

They have been a friend to friends of Oblige for years and we are extremely excited to be sharing space with them again. Air is a queer non-binary neurospicy poly switchy shaninstigator of magnitude. They have been involved in the Rope/BDSM community for just shy of a decade. As an avid self-tier, rigger, and rope bottom, they've showcased their creative, precocious, and hilariously sadomasochistic style at both national and international level events. Committed to fostering inclusivity and non-judgment, Air passionately guides individuals on their magical kink journey with skill and contagious enthusiasm.